So yesterday, some neighbours were going out on a post Diwali Saoji Party. The gang had 4 brothers and 3 elder male members. And yet the sisters stayed home stating, "unko kahan Saoji le k jayenge"
Just an hour before that, we were sitting at a Saoji - mind you a proper Saoji. Dattoo Saoji to be specific. I had asked in the car, should I come up. And they said, "off course. car me baith k kya karoge"
We stayed there till our parcel got ready. I said, "Kaash! We knew a girl who could come with us to this Saoji". Their stance was, why do you need somebody. This is a nice place, let's come here someday later.
Yesterday, we had to bring in parcel home for some reasons. Food was already cooked at home and we were told to have nonveg out in the garden for Diwali time. Saoji plan was made purely bcoz I wanted to have Saoji. Everyone else was completely okay with the Diwali specific heavy Indian food that we all hog on during this time.
Honestly, I felt so bad for those sisters whose 4 brothers left them back home!
Mine have never done that!
Not just this, from letting me drive 180kmph on highways to letting me drive 500 kms at a stretch on our multiple Nagpur-Mumbai road trips. From warning me about the men I date to handling me deal with sometimes idiotic and sometimes serious breakup's' without ever saying, "told you"
From fighting to taunting and yet pampering me on every little wish and demand of mine....the bar is set impossibly high!
May be, that is why I am happily single and may be, shall remain so coz who do I need!
Cheers to the plans we make, the loud laughs we have, the struggle we go through together and the motivation that comes simply from talking to each other!
#tripplingforever
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